This Link is why I'm scared of VDay. But I, like every human, would like love.

Parts I liked, from "How to Be a 20-Something"
"Move into an apartment on the corner of Overpriced and Dangerous.
Remember that you’re young and that the world is your oyster.
Have a real relationship with someone. Regardless of the outcome, feel proud of yourself for being able to love someone in a healthy way.
Start your twenties with a lot of friends and leave with a few good ones.
Form the habits that will stick with you forever. Drink your coffee with two sugars and skim milk every morning."
and Yes, it's generalizing. and I did read that similar, also-generalizing New York Times article.