forbes.com thought for today
“ Be kind and considerate to others, depending somewhat upon who they are. ”
— Don Herold

Ever get that feeling that what you have to do isn't the right thing but that there's really nothing else you can or should do differently?

Life doesn't always go my way

I'm not a girl don't tell me what to believe

I'm just trying to find the woman in me. 

know how to love. then who to love.

Princess and the Goblin by George McDonald. He also did a book called Lillith, 
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EVANGELION

Doll-Asuka: Are you lonely? Are you alone?

Asuka: No! [the Doll-Asuka disintegrates] Stay away from me! I'm going to live by my own!

Doll-Asuka: But do you love me?

Asuka: I won't rely on anyone!

Doll-Asuka: But do you really love me?

Asuka: I can live by my own!

Doll-Asuka: But you're lying.

"I can’t miss someone unless they let me miss them. There’s this behavioral science thing tied in with lab rat studies (aren’t all behavioral science things tied into studies of rats somehow?) that says that any reward becomes mundane when it is constant. If people won money every time they pulled the arm of a slot machine, they probably wouldn’t develop addictions to gambling. If you eat a gallon of ice cream every day for the entire summer, ice cream isn’t super delicious again until October. Yes, I am speaking from experience on that one. If your live-in girlfriend makes you coffee every morning, it becomes habitual and you stop appreciating it. If you metaphorically crawl so far up a partner’s butt that they never get any distance from you, they can’t miss you… and getting things you’ve had the chance to want is so very delightful."
i read stoya's blog.

"One day I'll find the right words, and they will be simple.” ― Jack Kerouac, The Dharma Bums