“You must learn her.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.
And, this is how you keep her.”
― Junot Díaz, This Is How You Lose Her
a diligent and creative labor of love spanning decades; i log things i can't forget, so i don't forget them.
Fall Photo Dump
I love Fall, most of all. The changing of the seasons feels more important this time of year than any other somehow. Next favorite or signi...

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Andrea is unfortunately in love with her phone. She had a tea party today! This evening she is hanging out with her little sis, and is proba...
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Admit it! Despite your pseudo-bohemian appearance And vaguely leftist doctrine of beliefs You know nothing about art or sex That you couldn’...
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Classes are keepin me busy. It was a really nice day today.. had class, worked, and in the evening, Jenny and I saw the Kansas City Ballet p...